some examples of how to educate a child who is less good.
1. If the child had fallen because of nudging the table, we hit her desk and told the baby that tables are evil.
or:
if child A hits child B to the B to cry, we will (pretend to) beat the A in front of Person B that Person B did not cry anymore.
Attitudes like this will educate children to become the avenger. The child will also be educated to become a man who never felt guilty. "Anyway, whatever happens, the wrong is someone else, not me!"
2. When children fall, we will immediately carry him and protect him, being seolah2 the child has just suffered a huge disaster.
Attitudes like this will educate children to become spoiled, that not hold trials of life. They will easily give in when facing problems.
I think, let alone if we just fall in normal children. Said that the fall it was normal, and he experienced no need to worry about. Unless they fall so hard that his head swelled, that's another story, hehehe ...
3. Frighten the child would be the existence of ghosts. Usually, this way is used by parents if they are disobedient children or can not be told.
indeed, in the short term this attitude is usually effective. But for the long term, this is just not good. SI children will grow up to be a coward. he will be afraid of ghosts, or spirits when hanti actually not to be feared. They are creatures that are much lower than human. From now on, we just have to menamamkan sense in children that ghosts do not need to be feared. We just have to "take for granted" against a ghost.
4. Too many banned. "Do not son, lest you fall." "Do not play water dong, later into the wind." "Why eat so stained? Slob know!" "That's why discarded rice? Kan redundant!"
Children are a kind man who was in the process of learning. So fair dong, if they often make mistakes. If they throw rice for example, the best step was not scolding them and saying it was redundant. But it would be nice if we tell them in a way that is more fun, and be accepted by their minds are still limited.
Too many banned also will educate children to become not dare to try new things.
5. Consider the child as a fool We often say, "Ah, little kids, him anything!"
In fact, many small children who have demonstrated their prowess. They managed to prove that they are smart people and severe, though still a very young age.
I think we should appreciate the existence of every child, especially if the children themselves! We just have to treat them as a human being with potential. We never know exactly, how much knowledge is already saved in heads of our children. Therefore, you should never assume they are stupid, not to know anything, and so forth.
By treating them fairly, this will educate the child became a man who believes himself so that he would more easily achieve success.
6. Scold children if they ask Maybe we have kids who ask too many questions. Because bored and annoyed, we scold him, saying they were talkative, even told him not to ask too many questions.
In fact, children are fussy or often asked, is actually a very smart child. They want to know a lot of things. Therefore, try to be patient with them. Pertanyaan2 Answer them as best as possible, with a fun way. In this way, creativity and intelligence of children will grow up with appropriately.